Author Archives: chriselms

Magical Relationship, One

Are you in a magical relationship, right now? If it’s not a magical relationship, would you like it to be? If so, this book is the right one for you. Magic will begin to be summoned before the first page … Continue reading

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Become More Amazing

Become More Amazing, for all levels Being alive is amazing, right? And then, within that, we all have our amazing talents, quirks, and inclinations. We are all amazing. And just as perfect as we are, we can get even better. … Continue reading

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AWARENESS, chapter 13, in Anat Baniel’s book

Kids Beyond Limits, lists 9 essentials for your child’s transformation. They are also essentials to our learning, and our waking up to a higher quality of parenting , loving and life in general.   This chapter is about awareness. It’s … Continue reading

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Autism, Imagination, Helping their life move forward

Imagination, essential 8, chapter 11 in Anat Baniel’s book, Kids Beyond Limits In this chapter, Anat has a great story about Ari, a young autistic boy who endlessly repeated a certain video. Without it, he became anxious. With it, he’d … Continue reading

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The Learning Switch, essential 7 for Autistic Kids and all of Life

Turning on the Learning Switch, Essential 7, chapter 10 in Kids Beyond Limits kids are meant to learn they love to learn and sometimes the deal is stacked against them and they have “teachers” and “therapists” who are teaching them … Continue reading

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Flexible Goals, Essential 6 from Anat Baniel, for Autistic parenting and a good life

If you push your child to get to the result that YOU want, it may well be something out of their capabilities Results: they will feel awful They will learn to think of themselves as a failure You and they … Continue reading

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ENTHUSIASM, fifth essential. For Autism parents, for a good life

ENTHUSIASM, 5th essential, chapter 8 in Anat Baniel’s Kids Beyond Limits Wow, this chapter says a lot It’s like the magic spice to make the meal of your child’s improvement delectable Here’s the deal: It’s not jumping up and down … Continue reading

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Sad but true, sometimes OT and PT makes things worse

No one wants to hear this since to OT/ PT “help” is usually free, …. but I once had a wonderful little client, who had advanced from almost completely immobile to moving her arms and legs in exploratory fashion she … Continue reading

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For Autism, Subtlety, Chapter 7 from Anat Baniel

Subtlety: Essential 4, in the Anat Baniel book, Kids Beyond Limits Subtlety means, using less force. Less effort. Less noise. Less intensity. As always, this is about your child’s brain. And as always, this is about your chance to radically … Continue reading

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For Autism and Life: Do it Better, not “right”

Go for “better” not for “right,” it’s smarter, more fun, and much more effective I can do this. Once upon a time was madly in love with learning carpentry. Roof angles aren’t easy, and when you figure them out, and … Continue reading

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